Anonymous asked: Hi it's one of the 16 yearoldgirls who was dating her best friend. I wrote to you a really long time ago. Our parents ended up catching us a couple months ago and they didn't understand we loved each other. We have been banned from all communication from 1another. I don't know what to do. Ive tried to move on but can't. I don't know if she feels the same way still about me either. I thought of ideas of trying to get in touch but there dangerous. I can't get caught again but I love her.

Yes i realize that you have fear of getting caught, but really do you think it is great enough to stop you from talking at all? When i first read it i felt like, you have many options. If your folks really won’t listen to you this is what i would do. Get a friend, mabye at school for some communication, they could possibly text the girl and get the details if she has moved on or not. Lets say, if she is not that into you anymore, then i would say try to get your life moving on, your young and you WILL find someone else. You will feel like you can’t  move on but in time it will be okay to move on. If she still has feelings for you then yay! you could get a pre-paid phone then you hide and only use at night like when your parents sleep and then you too could talk at night until you can possibly find a better plan. I hope this works for you, if you would like more suggestions. Message us back.

-Lisa

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Savannah’s answer:

What is your parents’ reasoning behind blocking all communications? If it is something closed-minded or just plain stupid, then void my response, but I have learned the hard way that parents, believe it or not, actually do understand (most of the time). Since I’ve become a parent myself, I also understand parents’ ways a lot better now more than ever. I always thought my mother was strict, or rude, or just a plain stupid bitch. I clearly see now that she was right the whole time and if I would have listened to her, I honestly don’t think my heart would have ever been broken. Like I said, if it isn’t something totally stupid, you might even want to try putting your parents point of view into consideration.